Be funny, but be real. It's attractive. I think someone who can make me laugh is cute. I like the way they aren't afraid to be themselves with me, I mean the way that they can make me laugh and smile until my cheeks hurt is amazing. After all, laughter is the best medicine for everything right? So just live life, make silly faces, laugh, smile, and let's enjoy each other's company. This definitely is a big plus in my book.
I think every relationship should be treated like a marriage. Don't commit if you're not serious. A relationship is also a promise to be more than just loyal and faithful, but also to always be there for each other through thick and thin. If you're unsure, stick to dating. But don't make a promise that you cannot keep. If you're not in it for the long run, why do it at all? Why put the other in danger because you're only thinking of the present. A relationship should never be selfish, but understanding. Marriage is just a relationship with a higher title, it should always be the same as a simple healthy relationship.
You know that playful relationships last longer than serious ones. You can mess around and actually have fun in the relationship. You can mess around around and have fun in the relationship. You become more than just boyfriend/girlfriend, you become best friends. It's nice to be lovey dovey with each other but sometimes it's too much and you get sick of it. That's how they end up breaking up because you lose feelings. Playful relationships end up lasting longer because you actually feel comfortable and you can be your fun side and they will still love you no matter what.
You know that one person you can tell anything to and do anything with? You can act like a total jerk to them and call them mean names and they won't get hurt. You say the randomest, most disturbing things to them and they won't mind. I just love it when I can be my crazy self when it comes to them, and they'll accept me. If I'm weird around you, that means I'm comfortable with you.
If I like you, I like you. It's just that simple. It doesn't take much for me to like you. If me and you click right away in the first convo, I'm going to get hooked to you. If you have a great sense of humor, I like that. If you can make me laugh or smile, I'm going to get attached to you. I'm not asking for much. I don't even care what race you are, if I like you, then I like you. No ifs not buts. Just believe me when I say I like you.
Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the pool. She'll scream and fight with you. But secretly, she loves it. Hold her hand while you talk. Hold her hand when you drive. Just hold her hand. Tell her she looks pretty. Look her in the eyes when you talk to her. Protect her. Tell her stupid jokes. Tickle her, even when she tells you to stop. When she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Get her mad, then kiss her. Tease her and let her tease you back. Kiss her on the cheek. Kiss her on the forehead. Just kiss her. Let her wear your clothes. Go slow. Don't rush anything. When you fall in love with her, tell you.
But don't ever expect her to play her part if you have other girls auditioning for her role. Don't take her for granted. She likes you because of your personality, the way you make her feel, and how you can just make her laugh, smile, and what now, but don't be taking her for granted. If you're going to end up leaving her in the end, why not just leave now and make it easier on both you and her. It just makes the situation worse when she finds our you were taking her for granted and not telling her in the beginning. If you're going to use her, just stop and tell her what's going on.
Be content with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Yes, there are people who are greater than him/her. There are people who are more attractive, more intelligent, more caring, and more fortunate. That's life - full of temptations. But don't be deceived by those things. Because haven't you ever realise that there are people who are also greater than you? Yet, he/she chose you.
Don't force anything to happen. Let every piece fall into it's place as it should, on it's own. Don't try rushing anything, because if it's meant to be, it'll happen eventually. You might end up ruining something by rushing it or trying to force it to happen. Let things happen naturally, and you'll notice how much more happier you'll be when they happen unexpectedly.
In my opinion, if someone really wanted to be with you, they'd make an effort to do so. They wouldn't make you feel like you're competing with other people. They wouldn't make the relationship feel one sided. They wouldn't flirt with other people.They wouldn't change their personality towards you depending on who they're around. They'd simply make you feel as if you were theirs.
Let love come naturally ;)
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