Be Yourself.

sorry, sidetrack for a while :P


This post is about BEING YOURSELF.
People change to be what others want them to be like. aka Hypocrites.
Honestly, if you change yourself to be what others want you to be, you are not showing them that you are who you are and not who they want you to be. Why change to let others like you?
I mean, if they really like you, they wouldn't mind you. The REAL YOU. Don't let others change the real you. They got to accept you for who you are. Nobody is perfect in this world. It is impossible to be someone who nobody will hate. No matter pretty or ugly, skinny or fat, black or white.
Okay fine, all girls will want to be pretty. So I find it okay to go through plastic surgery to become prettier. But if you think about it carefully... Why would you want to spend so much money and pain just to look prettier? Loving someone, you will not really care about appearance. Though first impression matters, but you know everybody have a unique face. We were born this way and we should live with it. Why change it to be a totally perfect face?

Nobody are born exactly the same nor perfect, even the President. To be happy, you don't have to be perfect or pretty. Just be yourself. Even Mr/Ms Popular is not perfect. It's the way you look at people actually (: Trust me, be yourself and you'll be happier. Also don't change to be able to clique around with your friends. If they are your true friends, they will not mind you for who you are, therefore you wouldn't need to change for them. If you find yourself changing for the bad, you should consider if they are your friends. Okay, I don't mean to say like people who smoke are bad people. I do have friends who smoke. I don't detest them just because they smoke. I like them for who they are and they do respect me too. They will never smoke in front of me. Of course, I do try to encourage them to quit smoking, or at least cut down. It will definitely take time to quit completely. Show them that you care. Show them that you will be, supporting them. Don't leave them. You can make a difference (:

*I know I'm out of topic. Sorry.